[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.oppa.cz\/proc-maji-k-sobe-laska-a-nenavist-tak-blizko\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.oppa.cz\/proc-maji-k-sobe-laska-a-nenavist-tak-blizko\/","headline":"Pro\u010d maj\u00ed k sob\u011b l\u00e1ska a nen\u00e1vist tak bl\u00edzko","name":"Pro\u010d maj\u00ed k sob\u011b l\u00e1ska a nen\u00e1vist tak bl\u00edzko","description":"Pokud zrovna za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me nov\u00fd vztah, jsme v\u011bt\u0161inou \u00fapln\u011b pono\u0159eni do pocit\u016f soun\u00e1le\u017eitosti a zamilovanosti k druh\u00e9 osob\u011b. Mysl\u00edme na n\u011bj, nebo na ni, kudy chod\u00edme.","datePublished":"2020-01-01","dateModified":"2020-01-01","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.oppa.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.oppa.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/48db5b3634ed7a3f1f89bca90f0a2521b0bb3970d57e3653d258d10b0f31fdf3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/48db5b3634ed7a3f1f89bca90f0a2521b0bb3970d57e3653d258d10b0f31fdf3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"oppa.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.oppa.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a366815_w4356_t1579378406.png","url":"https:\/\/www.oppa.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a366815_w4356_t1579378406.png","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.oppa.cz\/proc-maji-k-sobe-laska-a-nenavist-tak-blizko\/","about":["L\u00e1ska"],"wordCount":557,"articleBody":"Pokud zrovna za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me nov\u00fd vztah, jsme v\u011bt\u0161inou \u00fapln\u011b pono\u0159eni do pocit\u016f soun\u00e1le\u017eitosti a zamilovanosti k druh\u00e9 osob\u011b. Mysl\u00edme na n\u011bj, nebo na ni, kudy chod\u00edme. M\u00e1me nasazeny pomysln\u00e9 r\u016f\u017eov\u00e9 br\u00fdle, a jen t\u011b\u017eko si um\u00edme p\u0159edstavit, \u017ee se tento cit m\u016f\u017ee i \u00fapln\u011b p\u0159evr\u00e1tit. L\u00e1ska a nen\u00e1vist jsou naprost\u00fdm opakem, ale p\u0159itom k sob\u011b maj\u00ed neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b bl\u00edzko. Je to zaj\u00edmav\u00fd fakt, a tak trochu paradox. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b, nen\u00ed tak t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 tuto skute\u010dnost pro\u017e\u00edt. N\u011bkdy si ani neuv\u011bdomujeme, kam n\u00e1\u0161 vztah s druh\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem vlastn\u011b sp\u011bje. Jak moc se zm\u011bnil od dob, kdy jsme spolu za\u010d\u00ednali, a byli zamilovan\u00ed a\u017e po u\u0161i. Pro\u010d se to d\u011bje Pokud n\u011bkoho milujeme, m\u00e1me k n\u011bmu siln\u00e9 citov\u00e9 pouto. Ten \u010dlov\u011bk je v na\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd. Mnohdy a\u017e tak, \u017ee si \u017eivot bez n\u011bj nedok\u00e1\u017eeme ani p\u0159edstavit. Pokud n\u00e1m ale takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk n\u011bjak ubli\u017euje del\u0161\u00ed dobu, a my jsme s n\u00edm st\u00e1le ve vztahu, za\u010dne n\u00e1s to velmi bolet. Po l\u00edtosti a smutku \u010dasto p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed emoce, jako jsou vztek a nen\u00e1vist. A\u010d se to m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t divn\u00e9, je to pr\u00e1v\u011b d\u016fsledek na\u0161eho na za\u010d\u00e1tku veskrze pozitivn\u00edho citu k dan\u00e9 osob\u011b. Pokud c\u00edt\u00edme l\u00e1sku, je pro n\u00e1s dan\u00e1 osoba velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1. Pr\u00e1v\u011b proto se n\u00e1s emocion\u00e1ln\u011b dot\u00fdk\u00e1 jej\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Toto jedn\u00e1n\u00ed bereme osobn\u011b, a tam pr\u00e1v\u011b vznik\u00e1 nesoulad, a \u010dasto i velmi negativn\u00ed emoce. Dalo by se \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee nen\u00e1vid\u011bt n\u011bkoho, koho milujeme, je jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e si v\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed mysl\u00ed. Jak z toho ven Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee na\u0161e vnit\u0159n\u00ed c\u00edt\u011bn\u00ed a emoce, vych\u00e1zej\u00ed z p\u0159ipoutanosti a z cit\u016f, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1me v\u016f\u010di dan\u00e9 osob\u011b. M\u016f\u017eeme si za to vlastn\u011b sami, a my sami tak\u00e9 mus\u00edme zm\u011bnit n\u00e1\u0161 postoj. Pokud tak neu\u010din\u00edme, budou n\u00e1s na\u0161e negativn\u00ed emoce zbyte\u010dn\u011b obt\u011b\u017eovat, a u\u017e\u00edrat zevnit\u0159. Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 v\u0161echno \u0161patn\u00e9, co se ve vztahu stalo odpustit. Odpustit partnerovi, ale tak\u00e9 sami sob\u011b, abychom mohli j\u00edt d\u00e1l. Mus\u00edme p\u0159ijmout novou realitu bez posuzov\u00e1n\u00ed a jako fakt. Co se stalo, stalo se, a jde se d\u00e1l. Nikdo nen\u00ed dokonal\u00fd, a v\u0161ichni d\u011bl\u00e1me chyby. Pocity nen\u00e1visti a zlosti nikomu nepomohou a je dobr\u00e9 se jich co nejd\u0159\u00edve zbavit. V takov\u00e9 situaci \u010dasto pom\u016f\u017ee, zkusit se na celou v\u011bc pod\u00edvat o\u010dima partnera. M\u016f\u017eeme tak\u00e9 hledat n\u011bjak\u00fd vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed smysl toho, co se n\u00e1m stalo. Nap\u0159\u00edklad naj\u00edt smysl v tom, \u017ee jsme se t\u00edmto z\u00e1\u017eitkem m\u011bli v \u017eivot\u011b nau\u010dit n\u011bco, co do budoucna u\u010din\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot lep\u0161\u00edm a spokojen\u011bj\u0161\u00edm. Nen\u00ed v\u00fdjimkou, \u017ee z t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdch \u017eivotn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed, \u010dlov\u011bk vych\u00e1z\u00ed siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e byl p\u0159ed t\u00edm.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          3.6\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pro\u010d maj\u00ed k sob\u011b l\u00e1ska a nen\u00e1vist tak bl\u00edzko","item":"https:\/\/www.oppa.cz\/proc-maji-k-sobe-laska-a-nenavist-tak-blizko\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]